Couples Corner: Honesty

Honesty is such a lonely word. Everyone is so untrue. Honesty is hardly ever heard. And mostly what I need from you..

Hoy, that's not my entry.. just need to let it out.. I am having an LSS here waaaah..

Seriously..I am very honest with my hubby and he on me. The word secret does not involve in our vocabulary (oh well except for times when he would ask or I would ask him if we have other "plans" for tonight, that's the only time that the word secret is used). I really can't keep a secret from him and I know he too cannot keep any information from me.

He is trying to quit smoking or rather I was forcing him to quit the habit. Even if he goes to the office and I could not see if he is smoking or not, he would tell me, if he smoked a stick or two. I, on the other hand, is very true to him. He knows how much moolah I have in my paypal. He knows where I got my moolah and he even knows who is the husband of some of my marce (that's Paul, Mike and Rey). He even knows what avatar Mike is using LOL. I really have to tell him small things like that.

We both know we should never keep anything from each other. In fact we have no privacy at all and suits us both. He knows my stuffs (even my password) and I know his stuffs too. Even when he goes out at night, he would tell me where he has been. Oh yeah, I know everything about AF1 and the likes. It's creepy at times but we just looove stalking at each other.LOL

Couples Corner: Promise

Will you still love me tomorrow?

I don't know..

Since Marce Liz has no answer yet, I am quite lost on how to deal with the theme this week. Is this a question for me? or for him?

If it is for me, my answer would be yes, I will still love him tomorrow, the next day and all the days to come. Heck! I chose to be with him so what is the sense of this question? nyahaha

Hubby and I do both believe that when you enter a relationship there is no turning back. A relationship is not brought about your hormones (maybe inspired by it), it is a decision to be involved with some one else. It is more than kilig moments, I can't last another day without you drama, to us, it is based on thinking if you are ready to stay with the person no matter what.

And yes, when I got into relationship with my hubby, I vowed to myself that I will do anything to make it work.

CC: Xrayed Couples

Xray couple because theme for this week is how well we know each other. There is only thing about me that my husband knew and that's what keep our relationship strong. He knew that when we quarrel, bicker, get at each other, he SHOULD be the first one to say sorry. He knew I love my pride so much. LOL

As for him, uh, I knew him so much that he cannot lie to me. Sometimes he would tell me something and I can caught him if he has a hidden agenda. But if you insist that I put a list of things I knew about him, I won't give you a hard time LOL

I knew that he loves eating with fruits, banana for saucy dishes (menudo, afritada) and mango for any other type of dish.

He hates poopoo and have this thing over garbage. He hates seeing that the garbage can is already full. It is rare that he would clean up his kids poopoo.

He always prefer rice over bread but he like bread with peanut butter on it partnered with hot coffee. And yes, he like dipping his pandesal in his coffee.

When he is angry, don't argue. He never take reasons when he is mad. Try to let him cool down and talk to him after his moment.

He likes pleasing me, in every ways. In every thing. When I want something, he tries his best to give it to me.

He never likes Pizza, but he loves to eat, eat and eat and he never get tired eating beef.

There is so much tot ell about him but I guess this will do for a while. Head on to Marce Liz for more Couples Corner entries :)

And oh he hates pictures.. that's why I don't post our pictures, because we have none.

GT: Firts Date

I love this week's theme, unlike last week, haha, first date. I love this theme because I have nothing to share. Poor pehpot. I never experienced dating, I never experienced being wooed by guys. I never experienced receiving flowers from a guy. Why? I am super straight forward, if a guy starts showing interest in me, I say out right that I don't like him and if I like him, I say it there and then. You think I ma easy peasy? nah, I just don't believe in courting, it's n use for me. Just the same in dating LOL

Mare, you're making it harder for me! And I thought this will be easy. Aside from doing my GT entry, I am also doing my Couples Corner, and both memes are giving me a hard time looking back. Is it memory lapse or my life is really not that colorful? waaaahh

First date. first date. first date. I really have nothing to share.. me and the hubby, as soon as we got this thing going on between us, and even before, we were already living in the same house. We breathe, sleep, eat together most of the time, what's the use of dating?

Now, because of GT, I wished we have been more romantic, so I have something to share here. But I am sure some or most of our girls had fun dating, I can't wait to read their entries.

Couples Corner: GRRRR!!!

Oh no.. I have nothing to share today here in Couple's Corner.. He made me really angry? when? I can't remember a time where I a m so furious at him. I tell you I don't have a lot of patience and I snap easily. I am always mad at him, LOL. I easily get mad at him but I'm easy to please too. For the love of Marce Liz, I will try to remember any situation that I got so furious at him.

There was a time that we almost got separated but I was not angry at him, I was hurt by his choices. *after 30 minutes and after scheduling my post for gt* OK, there is one incident that I was so hurt (and yes, a bit furious at him). I went out and meet my friend in a mall and we spend the whole afternoon chatting. When I got home and he learned about it he was so angry and paranoid. We spend the whole evening arguing and there was a point where I was so afraid of him that I threatened him. I told him if he would not stop being so paranoid I would kill myself. I was not angry at him, I was hurt because he did not trust me.

I was s o hurt because I love hims so much and I always try to understand him. Days before that, he let me wait for him fro three hours, on my birthday! And no, I was not mad at him, I know he was that busy (and I got with the ipod he gave and some stick on the hand, so it was not a big deal that I waited for 3 hours). That made him more paranoid, he said I should have been mad at him. Most of the times, he acts like he is the girl in the relationship. LOL

Couples Corner: Please WASH!

I so love this week's theme!! as in super that I wanna fly to Marce Liz place and kiss her and bring her bagoong na alamang or any native food to thank her. LOL The theme for this week is most annoying habit.. and last night we just had a short scene about one of his habits that I so hate.

Before that, his number one habit that I come to get used to is closet chaotic talent. He can make a nice looking, very organized closet to an Ondoy aftermath scenes. He is not doing it to annoy me, he just do it. He is not aware that he is doing it actually. Like for example when he needs to get an underwear, he would always (as in walang palya) take one that is waaay under all his underwear,, he is taking underwear literally. The best part about it is not he does not how to put it back. Even on shirts, shorts and all. Even if I would put his favorite short on top of his clothes, he would still dig under it.. haays..

And yes, his most annoying habit, oh well, after having four kids, he kinda changed now. Except for last night when he forgot again..he forgot to wash his feet before going to bed. Ah yes, his habit is he keeps on forgetting things but forgetting to wash his feet before bedtime is unacceptable to me.

How about your partner? What makes you say, "ibabalik na kita sa mudra mo, hmp!" LOL

Couples Corner: One Year Already?!?

One year already? Yup, that's our theme for CC this week. first year of being husband and wife... I missed the wedding day but will post a backdated entry soon..

Argh.. this is hard to explain without giving you a recap of what happened during our wedding. So after his proposal, we decided to get married on March 8 (2003) then due to lack of moolah (you have to pay the judge, buy clothes.. etc) we decided to move it on May but then we learned that I am already pregnant with our first boy and so the wedding should happen soon (my mother is still not aware that she has liberated daughter.. nyahaha).. And so we were married and the only people on his side was his mom (will give you the details soon) while on my side were some of my siblings (some can't attend and my oldest sister DOES NOT want to) and some friends of my mom. It was more like my mom's occasion than us.LOL

one week after I gave birth to our first boy

And so after the wedding, our relationship did not changed at all.. but the first year of being together has been very crucial. We have to face a lot of trials. During the first few months of being his wife, some of his relatives changed their attitude towards me. I have been living in their house for more than a year then and they were OK until we got married. It was stressful for both if us. There was this feeling that they does not like me. To make that worse, I was pregnant and experiencing morning sickness and other pregnancy related emotional roller coaster.

Then came along our first baby who is a colic one. Our patience were tested and so our capability as a parent and our commitment to each other. There is not a night that we don't bicker, it was our first time being a parent and to a colic child! Oh gawd, it was really hard but then it was one of the things that made us more stronger. I think the best song for our first year together is You and me against the world. It was how I felt then. And my mother who is my sanctuary was away. But even if she was far from us, she was our pillar. My hubby would call her every time we had a fight. She was the anchor in our relationship and her words and advices helped us through it all.